Overcoming those Barriers.

Life continuously has its up and downs and built up walls that we need to face and once we make it over those walls, everything starts smoothing out. Other times we can feel trapped, as if life is falling down and crashing on us, just when things started looking better, fences block our road we are trying to go down which indicate we may have to take a detour. This detour is needed to push us to our capacity. Sometimes we do not know what we are capable of, the strength we have until we experience such obstacles and challenges. But why must this be life? Because these difficulties are for us to learn from, to learn what we do want and to learn what we do not want in our lives. You have to experience the hard, rough times in order to have the good, happy times. As Carl Jung puts it, “The word happiness would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.” The hard times, even the good times make us who we are. Such times helps build our character, especially the way we behave and our actions as we go through our experiences. If our reaction is not too pleasant, we will be placed in a similar encounter (over and over again) until we learn what it is we need to change within ourselves to better ourselves. By keeping the light shining inside of us during such times, we are able to accomplish anything and we are able to overcome the obstacles and challenges that are put on our path and that are really inside of us. None of us are alone in such life experiences because we all have to face the demons and we are lucky enough to have those good times too. But with both, bad and good, we need to remember to be grateful for every given experience because it is an opportunity for each of us to learn, grow and develop. Do not ever give up and keep moving forward. By moving forward you are proving to yourself that YOU CAN DO IT which gives you more hope to resolve whatever it is that is inside of you.

We also have to keep in mind that we are all here for a reason and we are all very special in our own very ways. We each have talents, skills, even our appearances are different but that does not mean we are separate from one another… because within each and every single one of has a light that shines oh so brightly. We BE-ings need to find our full potential and share it…and always keep that light with us. Today and always, let’s be grateful for all of life, the good, the bad, the ugly, the beautiful…. Live, learn, experience, explore, enjoy! Know that the light is something we all share together regardless the hard times; the light is ALWAYS there for each and every one of us. Find it and know everything is going to be alright…because everything ALWAYS works itself out!

Love, Light and Blessings you beautiful Beings,
Dianne Furphy

“Many of us are frightened to look within ourselves, and fear has us put up walls so thick we no longer remember who we really are.” -Debbie Ford

“We enjoy warmth because we have been cold. We appreciate light because we have been in darkness. By the same token, we can experience joy because we have known sadness.” -David Weatherford.

Photography by Dianne Furphy, 2012.



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Jump on It.

Today is a new day which brings in new feelings, new thoughts, new emotions, new behaviors …there is just a whole new way about you. Live it to the fullest. Whatever may overcome you, excite you; jump on it. That is your inner guidance telling you “this should be done.” Instead of expectations, use intentions. Set intentions for yourself that has a burning passion inside of you.  Stand up and make action to what it is that you love to do. Make the time, (there is ALWAYS time) for something you love doing. We can play our life any way we want, we have a choice to make every day—you can wake up and make the best out of your day (and life) or you can make the choice to be miserable.  I read this quote the other day:

“’I am out of shape, I’m fat, I’m slow, stupid, I’m out of it, lame, tired, sick, unattractive, imperfect, or not good enough.’ We abuse ourselves while expecting to be in alignment with achieving our greatest dreams.” -From http://thegoddesswalk.wordpress.com/2012/07/19/careful-what-you-wish-for/.

I found it to be so true. We have control over our lives, we REALLY DO! That is what is so magical and why miracles happen every day. We wake up, we are given a gift to be alive; therefore, take a chance with it to be grateful that you are given this very day, this very moment, to do and make whatever it is that you wish with it…make it special…make it you! Let’s make the choice to do what our hearts tells us to do, to look within and believe our Truth will follow right behind. Make today a new, fresh start…start NOW to make the choice to live the life you really want.

Love, Light & Blessings,

“We were all born with wings.
In times of doubt: spread them.”
-Kevin Meyers

“When you don’t recognize your full potential you don’t allow the universe to give you your divine gifts. Your soul yearns to realize its full potential. Only YOU can allow this to happen.” -Debbie Ford

Photography by Dianne Furphy, June 2012 @ New Jersey.

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Togetherness, Oneness is where I Be.
A feeling and emotion of love for eternity,
I have finally set myself free…
With constant gratitude which is deep inside of me.

Thank you for this life I Am giving,
Thank you for this life I Am living…
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Cancun, Mexico.When I first met Charles, we didn’t talk for long but he definitely had a feel good vibe about him. He seemed intelligent and leaving me wanting to know more. He invited me to one of his seminars he was holding at the resort which I could not resist not to go. He again welcomed my partner and me as we approached the seminar. I sat down to listen to his speech and was enthused by what he had to say. He hit all his words on the right button for me. He provided a lot of useful information in regards of being aware, consciousness and advice on how to learn a technique to benefit ourselves and our health. At the end of the seminar, I set up a personal session with Charles. So he came to the hotel room I was staying in; sat up a spot at the table that was in our room and sat my partner and I down and hooked me up to what he called a CIA device. I thought it was pretty cool to see my breathing pattern, my heart rate, even knew when I shifted my thoughts. The best of the whole hour and a half session was the moment I was in a different state-of-being and felt absolutely amazing. The best feeling I have ever experienced in my life. I still practice the technique at home and I do notice an improvement in me—in many aspects of my life.  Charles definitely played a positive influence in my life; therefore, I say thank you to Charles Wills for taking the time out to have sat with me and taught me a life-changing, healthier way of being. I have now became more patient in many situations in my life, less stress, I have learned how to be more open and to say, “yes” to more events that have crossed my path. Most importantly, I am all-around healthier and am learning everything is a process. *Keep in mind, I believe this is a mixture of all of my experiences tallied together thus far. All takes time. I am learning to live in the now. In the present. I am where I should be, little at a time. I am. By knowing this, it makes life that much more smoother, fun and just all around awesome for me. I am most grateful, thank you!

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