13 Ways on How to Maintain a Positive Attitude


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“Our attitudes control our lives. Attitudes are a secret power working twenty-four hours a day, for good or bad. It is of paramount importance that we know how to harness and control this great force.” -Tom Blandi These are some … Continue reading

Believe in Believing…


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You are capable of doing whatever it is that you want… All you have to do is work hard at it and most importantly BELIEVE. It all starts with believing… By believing you are putting whatever it is you want … Continue reading

The Flame of Light Within Me is You too.

“At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.” -Albert Schweitzer

Another weekend has passed… A weekend filled of love, laughs and giggles and fun times with friends and family who I am most grateful for. Friends and family are big pick-me-uppers when in time of need. Anytime I am feeling down, I know the exact people to turn to. Even when I am feeling good and happy, I know which friends and family members to turn to, to share such times with. I know each person who is a part of my life are a part of me for a reason. I have learned each person plays their special role and purpose to fill in my life just as I in their life. All of the people who are involved in my life, I have choose to learn from because each of them brings a certain twist to help me grow and develop. Although we beings are all connected in some way, we all bring our own uniqueness and characteristics to one another–to evolve and expand in such relationships we share together. We are all extraordinary in our own ways! …To the people who have always been there, who are here now and will be there, I am wholeheartedly grateful for you because it is YOU that brings out the LIGHT within me. Thank you, thank you, thank you–you beautiful beings. Keep shining and sharing the Light that is within you. I Love You. <3

Have a Happy, Light-Filled Day All.
Much Love Always,

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Think in the NOW.

“Remember, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.”
-Dale Carnegie

*Throw all of your worries aside, worrying will only create chaos. Think of good thoughts, fun thoughts…thoughts of how YOU REALLY want your life to be. Keep those thoughts with you NOW because it is NOW that you create your tomorrow with. Have a stress, worry free day now and always. Fill your day with peace, love, joy and gratitude!!

Happy Day All. 🙂
Much Love Always,
Dianne Furphy

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Considered Normal…

“Not to be able to stop thinking is a dreadful affliction, but we don’t realize this because almost everyone is suffering from it, so it is considered normal. This incessant mental noise prevents you from finding that realm of inner stillness that is inseparable from Being.” -Eckhart Tolle

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We Deserve Each Other.

When will all be ok? Currently, our relationships are crud, like crabs at the bottom of the bay. When are we going to be able to share more laughs and get together by the day…. please tell me why it has to be this way. Too many months of May are passing us by; let’s not wait until we are angels and fly, to have time together, not until our lasts breathe and after we die.

Like our mother, our mother who used to live at the bar, who wasn’t too far, too far from cleaning herself up, to change her life for her four worthy pups. Mother did good, did all she could, helped me understood when I should—Would you please let go and not withstood, all the love I have to share, because I do truly care.

It is a vicious never ending cycle—fighting and arguing—with who is right and who is wrong– in truth, we all belong; let’s start by being strong for one another and practicing work of good old disciple Michael.

This is where we stand, although I want to take your hand, and hold it close to my heart, because I do not want us forever apart. Maybe this could be a start, a start not to depart, and actually to restart a relationship with much love and creative art.

Oh mother how I miss you every single day; please show us the way… since you have physically left us, I am grateful I still feel your presence, my what a comforting essence.

The fifteen years you have not been here, caused so much fear with my sisters and I. It once caused me to say goodbye to hopes and dreams—and to smoother my emotions in beer. My dear mother, I shall recover, I have already shifted gears, and it took me many, many years and many, many tears— to build myself and undo my cover and learn from my peers. My three sisters I want you to adhere, with me, to share love with no interferes. Let’s begin to make a new premier and show ourselves we can do this with such excited sneers. For you three will always be my special frontiers.

This chaos can no longer lasts, let’s forget our past, start anew, a relationship who has significant vast. No more being harassed by one another, instead let’s contrast, into a new world of a cast. No more putting each other on blast, let’s go back to a heartwarming mass—of sisters who put the gast in the past.

We love each other; I know we all do, let’s squash this spew, and let’s all get through this together, this is something I know you want deep down too. Having a healthy relationship is all very long overdue, so let’s manage to scrap through the glue, and let’s start anew. No more withdrew of all these silly taboos. No more reviews of this and that, lets top off together with a sweet fondue and see each other’s true-view. After all, we do make an awesome crew.

Each of you are wholeheartedly loved so much by me. Please understand and see, I deeply want the best for you three. I love you.

-Dianne Furphy

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How I came across The Wills Wellness System.

“Understanding that everything exists in this one moment will give hope and light to your life. You no longer need to be troubled by the past, and can know that the future can be anything that you will it to be. You, as you are, in this very moment hold the key to everything.” –Masaru Emoto

Awhile back, I started gaining interest and practicing with yoga, mediation, reiki, even a little tai chi and other natural alternatives to live a healthier lifestyle. During this little journey of mine, no matter where I go, things I think about randomly appear. Literally, I think about something—anything—and it appears to me in its form, right in front of my eyes… somehow, someway. Think about it like this, what I think about are things I like and my interests. My interests consist of things like finding out more about me; Who I Am, what I am here on this earth for, how to make  myself and others happy and help them in such ways, and to just really know the truth about this world and universe and to really explore my spiritual side. Listen to this little—coincidence—as most people would call it. So, I went on a vacation with my partner and two other awesome couples to Mexico [Westin Lagunamar Ocean Resort Villas, Cancan] a couple months back and one of my friends who was staying in the same hotel  came up to me with a brochure and told me as soon as she seen it, she knew I would love to know more (and she was so right)! This pamphlet indicated that I could meet up with a person in the means of “Master of Relaxation.” As soon as I seen it, I did not intend for such an experience to occur right than and there but I was surely grateful for it. This surely was a super cool surprise for me. So, I then …of course, go and find this guy named Charles Wills who I have seen from the pamphlet.

“Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evaluation of your consciousness. How do you know this is the experience you need? Because this is the experience you are having at this moment.” –Eckhart Tolle

Cancun, Mexico.When I first met Charles, we didn’t talk for long but he definitely had a feel good vibe about him. He seemed intelligent and leaving me wanting to know more. He invited me to one of his seminars he was holding at the resort which I could not resist not to go. He again welcomed my partner and me as we approached the seminar. I sat down to listen to his speech and was enthused by what he had to say. He hit all his words on the right button for me. He provided a lot of useful information in regards of being aware, consciousness and advice on how to learn a technique to benefit ourselves and our health. At the end of the seminar, I set up a personal session with Charles. So he came to the hotel room I was staying in; sat up a spot at the table that was in our room and sat my partner and I down and hooked me up to what he called a CIA device. I thought it was pretty cool to see my breathing pattern, my heart rate, even knew when I shifted my thoughts. The best of the whole hour and a half session was the moment I was in a different state-of-being and felt absolutely amazing. The best feeling I have ever experienced in my life. I still practice the technique at home and I do notice an improvement in me—in many aspects of my life.  Charles definitely played a positive influence in my life; therefore, I say thank you to Charles Wills for taking the time out to have sat with me and taught me a life-changing, healthier way of being. I have now became more patient in many situations in my life, less stress, I have learned how to be more open and to say, “yes” to more events that have crossed my path. Most importantly, I am all-around healthier and am learning everything is a process. *Keep in mind, I believe this is a mixture of all of my experiences tallied together thus far. All takes time. I am learning to live in the now. In the present. I am where I should be, little at a time. I am. By knowing this, it makes life that much more smoother, fun and just all around awesome for me. I am most grateful, thank you!

It’s all about the decisions we choose to make. Here is another post I wrote based on decision, decision-making and change. I hope you enjoy!

Believe in yourself and you can Create What You Want. –Dianne


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Turning Negativity Into Positivity: Escaping Negativity Before It Got The Best Of Me…


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“Fear is a habit; so is self-pity, defeat, anxiety, despair, hopelessness and resignation. You can eliminate all of these negative habits with two simple resolves: I can!! …And I will!!” ~Anonymous From what I remember, I was a negative person … Continue reading